7 Feb 2012

Why I Oughta

It's been about 24 hours since my encounter with the fanatic on the airplane, and her words are still bumping around in my head: "Why are you breastfeeding this baby?"

And, finally, I have thought of a dozen answers far snappier than the honest, straightforward one I gave her.

1. Because he is hungry.
2. Because he finds it comforting.
3. Because I want to.
4. Because he is my baby.
5. Because I am his parent.
6. Because he wants me to.
7. Because my body makes a small but precious amount of the best food in the world for him, including antibodies that will protect him from YOUR nasty germs.
8. Because he is in a strange place.
9. Because he is scared.
10. Because his ears are hurting him.
11. Because it is good for his jaw development.
12. Because I love him.

I'll guess I'll save these up for next time around.

20 comments:

  1. I think we all have those "I wish I had said" moments. At least I have. It amazes me how quickly some people come up with them!

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  2. I found your blog through your published article about this encounter and I must say, what I wouldn't give to have been on that plane with you. I would've sat may butt down next to you and whipped out a boob to nurse my daughter with you in front of this woman. I am in no way comfortable nursing in public but I do it because that's what my daughter needs. Forgive me for not knowing correct terms here, I'll just say I "fit" society norms for a female, mother of 2 and I still get negativity about breast feeding, not just from strangers but family as well. So I will continue to follow your blog as inspiration to continue my breast feeding journey because if you are able to overcome your obstacles then I most definitely can. This co-sleeping, baby wearing, breast feeding and attachment parenting momma thanks you.

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    1. Hi Brittany, thanks so much for your support and encouragement! I too wish so badly that you would have been there on the plane with me... we could have had a nurse-in right there!

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    It's incredible how people feel entitled to comment on such a personal act. Your list is perfect! It's a shame you had to justify something so natural. It reminds me of being a kid and having to explain why I was playing Poptropica instead of doing chores – sometimes, you just do things because they make you (and in this case, your baby) feel good! Keep doing what you're doing; you're clearly a wonderful parent.

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  15. Spencer McDonell21 July 2025 at 01:06

    Ah, the age-old question, isn't it? As if feeding a baby requires justification beyond the inherent needs of the little human. The nerve of some people! It's baffling how others feel entitled to police such natural acts. Good comebacks are always formulated hours later, aren't they? Once, a cashier gave me a strange look while I was buying formula. I mumbled something about not producing enough milk and felt immediately ashamed for even offering an explanation. Next time I'll be prepared! Share your block breaker experiences with unwanted commentary, folks!

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