Breastfeeding and parenting from a transgender perspective.
Hi! Unfortunately the link in this post is broken; I went to the out.com website to find the essay, as I couldn't get to it by clicking the link. This is a great post! (I recently found your blog through PhD in Parenting and have enjoyed reading through your posts and have added you to my google reader.) I think your last point is particularly important; one can still be a mother if one hasn't given birth or breastfed, and conversely doing so doesn't make everyone a mother.
I had the same difficulty - here's the actual link, if anyone else needs it: http://www.out.com/news-commentary/2012/05/12/happy-mothers-day-transgender-dad
So sorry! It's been fixed now. Glad you liked the post though :)